Saturday, August 22, 2009

Twenty Five Years Ago....

The love of my life was born....
(yes abby is eatting his nose... He was talking to her closely and she was hungry... and his is big, so she thought she give it a try... Sadly she failed... but we got an interesting picture.)



So.. I've been waiting a while to do this post. I decided to save all my bragging things for his birthday post. Seriously, there has been a TON of times I've wanted to just sit and brag about my man. He's amazing. So I thought I'd do a "25 reason why I love my man".. in no particular order.


1. Hello?! He's like the hottest guy ever. Seriously, I still feel lucky my eye candy chose me back!

2. He changes diapers. Seriously, today he got the day off because it's his birthday.. I like the system we have.. Both of us change them. works so much better..

3. He's smart. Seriously, up there on levels of genius. But he doesn't make me feel bad or stupid, he just teaches me.

4. He's a good kisser. I'm glad I get to share eternity kissing him!

5. He reads to our kids a ton! Which helps pick up on days where I haven't been as good at teaching them. He's got my back!

6. He's hilarious.

7. He's smooth. Seriously, I love taking him places with me. First, he's hot, but then he's entertaining. Always thinking of the right thing to say at the right time. Something I'm jealous of. But I guess as long as I've got him, I don't need to worry about it!

8. He's an On the Go type of person. Which I think has really helped me (especially after having Abby). He's always wanting to get out and go have fun.

9. He keeps me grounded. Seriously, I am a worry wart. If it was up to me the kids would never get to do anything fun. Example: I take the girls to the park and only let them play on the safer looking things. He takes them to the park. They come home "Daddy let me go down the owie bar" (the firestation bar thing, it rubs on Emily's legs so that's what she calls it).. Luckily my kids have him.

10. He gets up in the middle of the night to hand me the baby. Why does he have to... Umm. that's another story for another post sometime in the FAR future.. Let's just say Aliens...

11. He's sensitive. Not in the like bad "please stop crying" way. But in the sweet way. Like one time when Emily was little he was feeding her food. The food was to hot and it burnt his tongue. He almost started crying. He just loves our kids so much.

12. He's got an amazing testimony which helps us get through a lot of our tough times. Just hearing "Heavenly Father helped us last time, we know it's going to be okay this time." Really brings the stress level down.

13. He says sorry. He's not afraid or to pride full to say he's sorry.

14. He really loves our kids. He doesn't mind watching them. He's a very hands-on Dad. The way he interacts with our babies, I can just see the pure unconditional love for them in his eyes.

15. He's OCD about a clean house. Yes, ours might not be perfect. But he picks up every night before we go to bed. Even if he's worked a 12 hour day.
16. He laughs at my quirks. He doesn't get annoyed. He finds my imperfections cute and more attractive. This makes life so much more relaxed and fun.
17. He's a good advice giver. Seriously. I know people come to him just for his advice. People who would otherwise just keep things in.
18. He's an amazing guy. Seriously, with all the problems I've had, he hasn't complained at all. He instead makes up for what I lack. When I got pregnant and my hips start hurting to no end he does more chores around the house, he takes the kids on more walks so I can have alone time. At the end of the day, he still has time to make sure I'm still not in to much pain!
19. He thinks I'm superwomen. He believes I can do anything, and it's helped me achieve so much. He really encourages me to try new hobbies and stuff. One year he spent all his birthday money on a gift for me, because I decided to try a new hobby.. Which leads me to............
20. He's so selfless, so often. If we won a million dollars, he'd spend it on making as many people's life better as he could. He's always thinking of ways to make others happy. Whether it be giving a homeless man his burger, or buying his brother a bike to helping his mom out. He just really loves to be a giver of so much.
21. He's extremely talented, in so many different areas. He's able to play songs on a guitar by just listening to it. He's also an artist and surprises me with this talent when I try to do something artsy (yes he does out-do me often)
22. He's creative. Kind of goes with talented... Never a boring time when he's around Weither it be creative jokes, or creative things to do as a family.. He has being creative down!
23. He compliments me. This is one of our strengths in our marriage. We both compliment each other often. From cleaning the house extra good to wearing my make-up differently. He makes me feels special for just being me.
24. He's good at picking out movies. Seriously, I'm always trying to buy ones I want.. But the ones he decides are good are normally 10 times better then the one i've decided would be good.
25. Man, I'm having a hard time picking the last one.. Not because there isn't another reason, but because there is more then just one left. I could say he has amazing eyes, sometimes blue sometimes a little greener, or I could say I love him because even now when we dance in our living room, it's like we are still floating on clouds. Or I could say I love him because when I'm truly down, he knows the perfect thing to say or do to make my tears go away. Or that he knows so many strange and interesting facts. Or I could say I love him because he's not quite perfect, which makes him so much much more perfect to me (i like quirks and learning through our imperfections together) No, I decided that the 25th reason I love him is..... Even after being married 5 years (knowing him eight years) he still surprises me with his amazing-ness. There is just so much about him that I keep learning, and love.
Happy Birthday Bryan Anthony! We love you so much!

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

One Month Old



Abby Renae is One Month Old (as of yesterday!!)

Abby Info:

*we love Abigail. Seriously, she's a great addition to our little family. We're blessed to have her
*she no longer has to wear her brace. She's been out of it for a week now.. We love her toes!
*She's become a great little eater. But also a great little sleeper. She did have a few eight hour nights.. But averages about 4-5 hours of straight sleeping. So really she only wakes up once a night
*She loves being sung to by her little sisters and mommy
*Life seems to be going by fast.. Seriously she's been here a month already!??!!?!
*She's probably the most kissed baby in the world. Seriously, Hannah won't stay away from her!!!

Happy One Month Birthday Little Love. Wecome to your CRAZY but loving family!!!

***Side note: Abigail's baby blessing will be the first week of September. Everyone is invited to share this special day with us!!!***********

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Abby's first bath.. and more.

I wanted to capture exactly what happened when she first entered the water. She liked it. My trick to a sucessful bath: warmer is better... seriously who likes a lukewarm bath?! I normally do it a little warmer.

Somehow I developed two extra arms during the bath :-D.. A two year old arm and a three year old arm. Yes, the really wanted to help!


Relazing after the nice bath..


I had to get a picture of her little feet.. I hate that she has to wear the brace... I never get to play with her little toes.

Whenever Hannah is in the same room as Abby, you can bet you'll find her doing a little bit of this:

She loves giving her baby kisses!

Sisterly Love..

She looked like she was pondering something serious... But now when I look at the picture, it looks likes she's ready to defend herself from her older sisters..

Abby in her brace...


On another subject. Emily is a genius. Seriously.
The other day she walked into our room and showed us her drawing.. Can you guess who this is?

(think Spongebob-y)

Then today she ran into our room all excited... "Mommy it's your name!!"

If you can't tell it spells "mom" with a few extra letters at the end

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Finding Joy in Motherhood

I was sitting and holding Abby, while Bryan took Emily and Hannah on a walk. And my heart was at peace. No, not because my house was a little quieter, but because this week has been full of things that have made me so happy to be a mom. (no it hasn't been an easy week, but well worth it)

Here's the list of joys I've found in the last 9 days:

*Right after they pulled Abigail out of me, she cried and cried and cried. I got this "strange" thought that I should call out her name. (with a c-section, they don't give the baby to you right away...) I said "abigail" and the crying IMMEDIATELY stopped. Yes she started crying again, but she stopped, and each time I called her name she would stop crying.

* Today Abby was crying in her carseat. Hannah and Emily decided to rock her and whisper "shhhh." She stopped crying for them. The girls we ESTATIC! "We calmed Abigail down!!!"

*It's been hot here. We got each of us a spray bottle from the dollar store to help no one over heat. Everyday I catch the girls with Bryan getting into a water fight, and LOVING it.

*Yesterday we were at my parents house. Hannah wanted something to eat, but Daddy was holding Abby. Hannah goes up to Daddy.. "Daddy, put abby down." He gives her over to me and Hannah takes Daddy by the hand into the kitchen. It was sooo cute!

*We got coupons from the preschool we are hoping to get Emily into for McDonalds. We went there and got the girls their free kids meals. When we got home Hannah opens her toy, she decided it was Abby's. And still won't take it back. She's determinded to share it with her baby.

*The last few mornings we've put Abby in the Boppy, then Emily, Hannah, and I sing her songs. We love this time and love sharing music with Abby.

*Everytime Hannah enters the same room as Abby she needs to kiss her.

*Whenever we go somewhere both girls ask "can we take Abigail with us too?" They just want to make sure she gets to stay with our family forever :-D

*The morning we had the c-section, Emily woke up HYSTERICAL! She thought that I had left without snuggling her. Something that we do every morning, almost. I love how small and simple things are so important to her.

*Morning snuggle time. It kind of goes with the last one. But on most mornings we are able to snuggle in bed together, it's probably my favorite part of the day... Just laying in bed with my whole family.... It usually ends with laughter and tickles.


OKay... I seriously could go on. I know being a mom is hard.. I have quite a few bad days. But seriously.. I love my girls! And they make life so much better.. All their little lights of sunshine, even through the tantrums!

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

They say babies don't smile.

Abigail's Hospital Anoucement. I thought the picture was way to cute not to share!!





Melissa and Bryan have chosen the name Abigail Renae for their beautiful new daughter born July 21, 2009 at St. Joseph Hospital.
Birth Statistics
Weight: 8 pounds and 9 ouncesLength: 19 3/4 inchesTime: 9:25 amDate:Tuesday, July 21, 2009

EDIT: I noticed this on under the hospital picture, and thought it would be way cool if i had the information recorded also.


July 21, 2009 - a day to remember
The Weather:
The sun rose over Bellingham at 5:30 am and set at 9:02 pm Local high: 81° F Local low: 59° F The nation's weather extremes were 120° recorded at Death Valley, California and 34° at Burgess Junction and Old Faithful, Wyo.

In the financial world
the Dow Jones closed at 8848.15 Minimum Wage was $8.55
and the prices of some big and little ticket items were
Loaf of Bread: $2.49 Gallon of Milk: $3.85 Average New Home: $252,100.00 New Car: $21,750.00 Gallon of gasoline: $2.75

Populations:
Bellingham: 76,500 U.S. Population: 306,145,387In the world of entertainment this week

The top grossing movie was: "Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince"

Abigail Renae shares her birthday with these other interesting people
1899 - Ernest Hemingway - One of America's most popular authors of classic novels The Old Man and the Sea, The Sun Also Rises and For Whom the Bell Tolls.1938 - Janet Reno - First woman to be America's highest law enforcement officer, U.S. Attorney General.1952 - Robin Williams - Award winning comic and actor known for the TV show "Mork and Mindy" and many movies, including "Good Morning Vietnam", "Popeye" and "Dead Poet's Society."

There have been some other notable events on this day in history
1861 - The American Civil War got underway in earnest as 60,000 troops fought the first major action of war, the first Battle of Bull Run, at Manassas Junction, Virginia.1925 - A Tennessee jury convicted John T. Scopes of illegally teaching the theory of evolution in public school in what was one of the most interesting and publicized trials of the first half of the 20th Century.

Happy Birthday Abigailfrom your friends at St. Joseph Hospital

Monday, July 27, 2009

Sleep, where art thou?

So, Abby-cakes has been a pretty easy baby. Seriously. But last night. Man, hopefully she doesn't repeat it. For some reason she just wouldn't sleep. She woke up every hour with gas, and needing to be feed......... and then at 3 she decided it was play time. And finally at 6 we snuggled her back to sleep, yep she slept a WHOLE hour and 1/2, the most she slept in a row all night. Then she feed and needed to be snuggled back to sleep until Emily woke up.. Then she finally fell asleep enough to put into her bassinet........ and then Emily started watching Dora, and got excited and held on to her bassinet and was bouncing and woke her up... (which is what just happened as i'm writing this).... Hopefully she'll just sleep.

I might have to call in my babysitting favors...... We'll see how grumpy Bryan is.... Maybe we'll just take turns sleeping.

OKay.. maybe i'll post later with fun pictures... But right now, i'm just sitting here making sure Emily doesn't wake Abby up..

Friday, July 24, 2009

DDH

Yes, baby Abby decided she wanted to look EXACTLY like Hannah did at this age... So in order to do so, we had to put her in a hip brace too! :-D

On a more serious note... Yesterday when the pediatrian came to check on Abby he noticed her right hip out of place. So right into the hip brace she went.
I've been kind of discouraged, at least I was all day yesterday. And I don't think that the whole Abby being awake from 2:30am-7am helped me deal with the problem. But now that I've had a decent (as good as you can with a newborn) nights sleep, i'm thinking a lot clearer and not even crying!!

DDH is Developmental Dysplacia of the Hips. It's just a tech. term for her hip out of the socket. It's something we've dealt with before.. so i am not to scared, and know it will only last a few months.

The thing I'm really not looking forward to is the constant asking of "what's wrong with her?" It's something I dread. I'm more then willing to answer EVERY other question about her DDH. But I guess "what's wrong with her?" isn't a real question, only a way to state that she isn't "Perfect." .. SO if you want to ask more questions if something comes up. Feel free. Honestly, as you don't ask the above state question. I'm more then willing to help educate and share all the knowledge I have on this subject.
oh, and no, it isn't any harder to hold her. It actually is a little easier.. Since she's all buddled up more...